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At first glance, Black Girl Travel seems to be like any other American international travel club, just one that caters exclusively to black women. But buried toward the bottom of its About Us page is a fuzzy YouTube video that indicates a wider problem.

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The video is a defense of the company — directed at "haters" who have criticized Black Girl Travel for encouraging black women to date men in other countries.

You can't find dates, white guy seeks blk female can't find mates, unfulfilling sex can't find husbands. Weaver, a statuesque black woman flanked by two chic employees on either side, is all long lithe limbs and wavy hair.

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Her presence, despite the poor video quality, commands the screen. And as I started talking to white guy seeks blk female it's like, they're only dating black guys.

Don't shoot me! That's what's happening. She cites her research, census data that suggests that even if every black man chose to partner with a black seeke, there would still be 1.

To get you to start thinking about dating interracially," Weaver says warmly.

That's what you want, right? Femake that's OK. Free wife threesome we know it's just not enough to go around! Weaver's not alone in her exhortation to black American women.

The idea that we should travel abroad — particularly to Europe — to find love has a home in online discussion groups, travel websites, blogs, and Facebook pages, all of which earnestly and white guy seeks blk female encourage us to "swirl," i.

Though they vary in tone — some are celebratory, extolling the joys of finding "Swirling Success in Sweden" while others are bear hard-nosed messages like "The Dating Truth for Black Women: Go to Europe and Don't Look Back" — every site insists that black women in America are better off looking for love in another country.

I first came across the encouragements to go to White guy seeks blk female and "swirl" when I was a junior in college preparing to study abroad in Sweden. Though I cringe to admit it now, I was excited by the possibility of a semester spent flirting with Swedes.

As a painfully self-conscious biracial woman, I had struggled to date at an Ivy League school, and studying abroad was as much an escape as it was a white guy seeks blk female academic endeavor for white guy seeks blk female international relations major. But I am also a European Union citizen, born whire Hungary to a Hungarian mother and Nigerian father, and my optimism femzle tempered by the reality of my experiences living and traveling in Europe, experiences that taught me I was both Other and object.

As much as I wanted to believe in sites that told me differently — that men across the pond were just waiting for my arrival — I felt like I also knew better. And while these sites say they intend femalf expose black women to a world of possibilities, the "possibilities" seem to predominantly feature black women with white men — a move that, intentionally or adultwork girls, presents interracial dating as aspirational.

Kim Butler, a data editor from California who moved to Germany in read this Bangor girl lol, pushed back on the argument that Europe is a solution to black female singlehood on her blog last year. She told me she's noticed many of the pro-"swirl" websites seem to be pushing one message: We'll just fmeale to Europe and find a white guy.

Nlk white guy seeks blk female former Los Angeles socialite who ran a once-popular site for affluent African-American Angelenos: And her statement was more or less repeated by nearly every one of the women I interviewed who advocate that black women date interracially and internationally.

Several added that they tell women to "choose character over color. Last year Chick withdicks, the chair of African-American studies at the University of Michigan—Ann Arbor and a former MacArthur fellow, wrote about the issues facing black women and interracial dating for the Huffington Post.

While "in a perfect world love would be blind," she wrote, in the United States — and its white guy seeks blk female best gay dating site uk white guy seeks blk female in which black is essentially bad and white is essentially good — our romantic decisions are also political ones, whether we'd like them to be whie not.

The practical, not the political, was flagstaff sex the driving force for Weaver when she founded Black Girl Travel. The company, which was originally named Bella Italia before expanding to other countries, arranges tours for groups ranging from fewer than 10 to over She could readily name all the women she's taken to Italy who are currently in relationships with, or married to, Italian men.

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But she insisted that Black Girl Travel's purpose isn't to convince black women that Europe is the solution to their singlehood. Weaver is speaking to what she calls "the 1. The women who, even if every black man chose to date a black woman, would still be left without a partner. Hwite it assumes all black women are heterosexual, this figure can't accurately convey the number of single black women seeking a male partner.

But black men are more than twice as likely than black women to marry outside their race, perhaps because stereotypes about black men and sexuality increase their desirability white guy seeks blk female while comparable parallels aren't often available to black women.

According to some advocates of interracial seeks, unlike black men, black women white guy seeks blk female a unique pressure lady want real sex Mammoth Cave date within their race. We're the mules. We're demale mammies. We're not supposed to leave. We're supposed to be holding it.

Karazin, who also spearheaded a controversial movement advocating against white guy seeks blk female motherhood in the black communtiy, describes tangled and knotted long-standing ideas about black desirability and femininity — or, the supposed lack thereof. The slave trade turned black bodies into objects of toil and labor, and made black women's bodies desirable largely in the context of rape, which allowed slave masters to exert further control over.

Slapstick mammies made exultant, toothy-grinned claims on the screens of femael 20th-century cinema, their large and lumbering figures merely vehicles for laughs.

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And black white guy seeks blk female sexuality has often only been portrayed in its most grotesque and remale forms, those of Hottentot Venuses or conniving jezebels. Throughout American history black women were either desexualized or hypersexualized according to the whims and anxieties of whites in control of their images. In America, with the exceptions of nearly exclusively light-skinned celebrities, to desire a black woman is to reach your hand into the bottom of the beauty standard barrel.

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As recently asscience or, "science" has been used to claim that black women are decidedly unattractive. As ghy women white guy seeks blk female the United States, we're told not only that we likely amateur nude women Cambridge pa get married, based on oft-misconstrued statistics that apply only to women aged 25—29but that trying via modern conventions like online dating are probably futile — after all, we're also the least likely to get messaged in online dating.

Malika Walker arrived in Rome two weeks ago as Weaver's new assistant. Her boss said she "can't even keep up with" how many dates Walker has been asked on since arriving. When I walked through the airport, I felt like a supermodel. Walker, who calls herself dark-skinned and repeatedly noted that she used to be heavier, moved to Italy from White guy seeks blk female, Ga.

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In Atlanta, she explained, light-skinned ideals made it difficult for her to date, though she had long ago learned to find validation from within rather than.

Chelsea Como, Weaver's other assistant who moved to Rome inechoed Walker's statements.

As a self-identified "brown-skinned" woman in Miami, Fla. Lo body type," she told me.

Como also admitted that getting honked at on the streets of Rome made her initially feel uncomfortable. In America, a white girl doesn't feel threatened at all by a black woman. An aspiring singer-songwriter who traveled with Weaver four times before making the move to Italy, Como said she only started wearing her natural hair white guy seeks blk female she left the U. My thoughts have lingered longingly on this question — why, yes, I would want to be.

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Yet, in the context of this Euro-topia, I wonder what to make of those in Italy who've derided their cabinet minister, Cecile Kyenge, as a "Congolese monkey" leading a "bunga-bunga goverment. And I'm at a loss to understand the actions of the White guy seeks blk female minister of culture, who smiled at the opportunity to cut into a cake in the form of a black woman as the artist who created it screamed in agony, his face smeared in black paint.

Some might say that sounds like a fetish or exotification, an issue many black women fear when they date interracially. But Karazin chalked that up to "defensiveness," saying, "We're always so weary that if somebody appreciates what we look like and who we are, then we automatically go into the mode of bllk, they're fetishizing me. Having femalf increasingly frustrated for years by incessant and unsolicited comments about how I look, I have shielded myself to the point that I sometimes wonder whether I'm too quick to judge.

But in my experience, the "keen interest" I've received from men in the European nations I've traveled to have been more about exotification than genuine appreciation.

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She recalled a particular conversation she had with the cousin of an ex-boyfriend.

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