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I find, though, that the couples who relate together mate. Sex is on a continuum that includes the mundane interactions of paying bills, housework, schedules, and so on. It puts too much pressure on a couple to have a somewhat routine existence drained of spontaneity and playfulness and then expect sparks in the bedroom.

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Thank you for your help. She approaches him about open marriage. They are just tired of running around behind their husbands and boyfriends backs.

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Come to find out, she wanted the open marriage to cover up her own infidelity. She eventually left me with all the indications of a walk away wife.

She left a wake of destruction for me and our three kids. I am just now realizing that she has been cheating on me for the past 21 years. Once a cheater always a cheater. She is a pathological liar. I agree with one of the previous posts if you have been married for a while and your wife asks for an open marriage then she is probably already cheating on you. This is pretty dangerous territory if you ask me, particularly since you are not totally on board with the idea.

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My wife is having these same feelings of open marriage…. Why does this have to be seen as only a negative thing? We are Freddom strong together and I think that for the most part we have a loving and honest relationship with each other, sometimes better than the couples who say that they are monogamous but then around behind each others backs and have meaningless sex with strangers.

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It is obvious to a relationship expert such as myself that they are trying to force themselves to believe the choice they made is healthy by advertising it to others in a desperate attempt to be validated. There are satisfied swingers here and other places online who share their mutual love for sex with other committed lovers that apparently your bias ignores.

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Your remarks are easily as biased as any that Lana wife want casual sex Freedom. Every couple is different and to suggest that Lana is not enlightened because of your bias is ridiculous. Tolerance works both ways. Both groups try to validate their format-the monogamous as well as the non-monogamous.

If that were true, then the same could be said for monogamous married couples. Non-monogamy works for some folks, but not for. Just let people do what works for.

Claudia, I failed in my haste to qualify the comment.

It is not my view but a cut and paste of a comment from another site that i had read. It was awnt of a Just Saying piece. But the follow up comments are rather precise. You and everyone who agrees with you is right and all others are wrong.

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You are the man and do not go along with. You two are married.